Why do I need a Divorce Coach anyway?
Ah yes, I mean come on, I know you may have asked yourself this very question and to be fair I totally understand you.
I mean on top of the legal costs that you are incurring and just trying to manage yourself, your family and total upheaval and emotional rollercoaster that you are going through, how on earth can you possible think of something else to manage ?
But that's the very point. Your Divorce Coach supports YOU.
Just as you would not seek the care of a dentist for a filling, and then also seek his input on what haircut you should get, and then let him/her try to implement that haircut for you, so should you not hand every aspect of your divorce to a divorce lawyer. There are others that may be more appropriate to help with some aspects of a divorce—such as a divorce coach.
When I say Divorce Coach, the response is sometimes, what now ?
So hear me out as a Divorce Coach, I am a flexible, goal-oriented coach for you. My role is to support, motivate, and guide YOU going through divorce to help you make the best possible decisions for your future. And the best bit, I am an expert at divorcing toxic personalities.
I am here to help you with the emotional stress. I am here as a sounding board. I am here when you want to shout from the roof tops. I am here when you are frightened and want to talk something out. I am here to tell you what the next possible step the toxic ex may take.
By talking to a Divorce Coach, you save money, you don't spend more money.
You do not want to be talking to your solicitor about the emotions and quite frankly your solicitor doesn't want to talk to you about the emotions either. Let's not shy away from the reality that I am half the price of a solicitor oh and by the way, I am a solicitor. You gain the benefit of my legal experience and my mediation experience ( oh yes I'm a mediator too)
I can help you with ,how to respond to text messages from the ex, how to tell the ex you want a divorce, how to respond to emails that come with a truck loads of emotional triggers and emotional blackmail, how to explain to the children that their parents are going to divorce, how to manage the ex when they change the parenting arrangements, coming up with parenting plans, how to respond to friends and family. I help you with all that and more.
I understand the nuances triggers and issues that stress you out that are inherently part of the divorce process.
The divorce process itself can look and feel complicated and it's difficult to get a handle on what is going on for you. Even with your solicitor, there can be moments when you feel lost within the process and unable to get a handle on what is going on. I can help you see clearly and discuss options that are available to you in all aspects of your divorce.
If you'd like to hear more, contact me firstname.lastname@example.org for a free 15 minute consultation to see how I can help you.