May 24, 20213 minCan Narcissism be cured?There is a lot of controversy around the treatment of people with narcissism or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, with many believing it...
May 5, 20213 minNarcissists and AlcoholOver the many years of running Your Divorce Coach, I have had a number of people tell me they are not sure if their partner has...
Jan 20, 20214 minWho attracts a Narcissist? and Why?5 Top Reasons why you may be attracting Narcissists. Narcissists and the types of people that they attract is a well known phenomenon. To...
Jan 5, 20213 minIs Narcissism all that bad?Ah yes this word "Narcissism", it's everywhere isn't it? And certainly for me as an expert at divorcing/separating from narcissists, it's...
Dec 3, 20203 minThe Narcissist and ChristmasI'm not even sure where to start ! Communicating with the Narcissist about Christmas and the Children Dealing with a Narcissist on...
Nov 22, 20204 minHow the court system handles the Narcissist?The label of Narcissism has gathered pace in the last few years and more and more awareness is brought about helping us to understand...
Oct 26, 20202 minWhat does the Narcissist think of themselves?This question gets asked alot. Essentially, we do lots of reading, research and endless googling to try and understand what a narcissist...
Sep 21, 20202 minWhy do I need a Divorce Coach anyway?Ah yes, I mean come on, I know you may have asked yourself this very question and to be fair I totally understand you. I mean on top of...
Aug 31, 20203 minHow the Narcissist uses Sex to control Narcissists are dangerous. Control, projection, gaslighting and manipulation are just a few of the techniques used to devalue and...
Aug 16, 20203 minThe Narc and Financial AbuseOh it's so often about the money...and the vast majority of Narcs love money. Money is a Mechanism for Control Ultimately, money no...
Jul 30, 20203 minAre you Codependent? 5 signs that you are or have been in a codependent relationship. When I have written or spoken about the dysfunctional relationship that...
Jul 30, 20202 minHow to spot a Covert Narc...When I've spoken about identifying a Narc previously, I explained that with Grandiose and Malignant Narcs, there are some pretty big red...
Jul 30, 20203 minWhen the Narc discards you...In the third part of my three part series on the different phases a Narcissist uses when he/she finds new supply, I am going to discuss...
Jul 30, 20204 minWhen the Narc starts to devalue you..In my previous blog, I spoke about the Love Bombing stage and how a Narc uses this technique to attract his/her prey and draw them in....
Jul 30, 20203 minThe Truth about the Narc's Lovebombing stageOh to be adored... the lavish attention, the wonderful affection, the stuff that you see in all the movies and it's happening to me. When...
Jul 30, 20203 minThe Narcissist Language TranslatorAs many of us will know, if we have to deal with a Narc in our lives, they have their own special way of using language in order to...
Jul 30, 20203 minThe Narcissist and the Codependent DanceDance you say? What on earth are you talking about ? Yes, if you find yourself in a relationship or have just come out of an abusive...
May 21, 20204 minCoping as a single parent during COVID-19I keep saying it and I won't stop now, but we are living in unprecedented times, in fact we are living out history, history in the making....
May 21, 20203 minDivorcing an angry ExI've said it before and I'll say it again. You never really know who you married until you divorce them. Anger in divorce is difficult to...
May 21, 20204 minShould I stay or should I go? The questions we need to ask ourselvesBelieve it or not, many have coined the month of January as "Divorce Month", the month in which a rather large percentage of men or women...