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Relationship Survival Tips Whilst Living with the Person You’re Divorcing
Create Structure. Just because you and your spouse may both be working from home that doesn’t mean that you have to let your life devolve...
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- Apr 11, 2023
- 2 min
Phrases to Use When Explaining Narcissism to Children
Sometimes your D/M blames people for things they haven’t done or tells you things that didn’t happen. If they do this to you, it’s...
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- Mar 15, 2023
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Ten Top Practical Tips for Getting Divorced
Identify what your options are. Far too often, when faced with divorce, we rush to see a solicitor thinking that this our only recourse....
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- Feb 7, 2023
- 2 min
The Creation of a Narcissist
The development of narcissistic personality disorder is complex and can be influenced by a combination of genetic, environmental, and...
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- May 24, 2021
- 3 min
Can Narcissism be cured?
There is a lot of controversy around the treatment of people with narcissism or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, with many believing it...
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- May 5, 2021
- 3 min
Narcissists and Alcohol
Over the many years of running Your Divorce Coach, I have had a number of people tell me they are not sure if their partner has...
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- Jan 20, 2021
- 4 min
Who attracts a Narcissist? and Why?
5 Top Reasons why you may be attracting Narcissists. Narcissists and the types of people that they attract is a well known phenomenon. To...
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- Jan 5, 2021
- 3 min
Is Narcissism all that bad?
Ah yes this word "Narcissism", it's everywhere isn't it? And certainly for me as an expert at divorcing/separating from narcissists, it's...
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- Dec 3, 2020
- 3 min
The Narcissist and Christmas
I'm not even sure where to start ! Communicating with the Narcissist about Christmas and the Children Dealing with a Narcissist on...
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- Nov 22, 2020
- 4 min
How the court system handles the Narcissist?
The label of Narcissism has gathered pace in the last few years and more and more awareness is brought about helping us to understand...
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- Oct 26, 2020
- 2 min
What does the Narcissist think of themselves?
This question gets asked alot. Essentially, we do lots of reading, research and endless googling to try and understand what a narcissist...
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- Sep 21, 2020
- 2 min
Why do I need a Divorce Coach anyway?
Ah yes, I mean come on, I know you may have asked yourself this very question and to be fair I totally understand you. I mean on top of...
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- Aug 31, 2020
- 3 min
How the Narcissist uses Sex to control
Narcissists are dangerous. Control, projection, gaslighting and manipulation are just a few of the techniques used to devalue and...
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- Aug 16, 2020
- 3 min
The Narc and Financial Abuse
Oh it's so often about the money...and the vast majority of Narcs love money. Money is a Mechanism for Control Ultimately, money no...
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- Jul 30, 2020
- 3 min
Are you Codependent?
5 signs that you are or have been in a codependent relationship. When I have written or spoken about the dysfunctional relationship that...
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- Jul 30, 2020
- 2 min
How to spot a Covert Narc...
When I've spoken about identifying a Narc previously, I explained that with Grandiose and Malignant Narcs, there are some pretty big red...
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- Jul 30, 2020
- 3 min
When the Narc discards you...
In the third part of my three part series on the different phases a Narcissist uses when he/she finds new supply, I am going to discuss...
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- Jul 30, 2020
- 4 min
When the Narc starts to devalue you..
In my previous blog, I spoke about the Love Bombing stage and how a Narc uses this technique to attract his/her prey and draw them in....
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- Jul 30, 2020
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The Truth about the Narc's Lovebombing stage
Oh to be adored... the lavish attention, the wonderful affection, the stuff that you see in all the movies and it's happening to me. When...
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- Jul 30, 2020
- 3 min
The Narcissist Language Translator
As many of us will know, if we have to deal with a Narc in our lives, they have their own special way of using language in order to...
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