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There is a lot of controversy around the treatment of people with narcissism or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, with many believing it...

Over the many years of running Your Divorce Coach, I have had a number of people tell me they are not sure if their partner has...

5 Top Reasons why you may be attracting Narcissists. Narcissists and the types of people that they attract is a well known phenomenon. To...

Ah yes this word "Narcissism", it's everywhere isn't it? And certainly for me as an expert at divorcing/separating from narcissists, it's...

I'm not even sure where to start ! Communicating with the Narcissist about Christmas and the Children Dealing with a Narcissist on...

The label of Narcissism has gathered pace in the last few years and more and more awareness is brought about helping us to understand...

This question gets asked alot. Essentially, we do lots of reading, research and endless googling to try and understand what a narcissist...

Ah yes, I mean come on, I know you may have asked yourself this very question and to be fair I totally understand you. I mean on top of...

Narcissists are dangerous. Control, projection, gaslighting and manipulation are just a few of the techniques used to devalue and...

Oh it's so often about the money...and the vast majority of Narcs love money. Money is a Mechanism for Control Ultimately, money no...

5 signs that you are or have been in a codependent relationship. When I have written or spoken about the dysfunctional relationship that...

When I've spoken about identifying a Narc previously, I explained that with Grandiose and Malignant Narcs, there are some pretty big red...

In the third part of my three part series on the different phases a Narcissist uses when he/she finds new supply, I am going to discuss...

In my previous blog, I spoke about the Love Bombing stage and how a Narc uses this technique to attract his/her prey and draw them in....

Oh to be adored... the lavish attention, the wonderful affection, the stuff that you see in all the movies and it's happening to me. When...

As many of us will know, if we have to deal with a Narc in our lives, they have their own special way of using language in order to...

Dance you say? What on earth are you talking about ? Yes, if you find yourself in a relationship or have just come out of an abusive...

I keep saying it and I won't stop now, but we are living in unprecedented times, in fact we are living out history, history in the making....

I've said it before and I'll say it again. You never really know who you married until you divorce them. Anger in divorce is difficult to...

Believe it or not, many have coined the month of January as "Divorce Month", the month in which a rather large percentage of men or women...